A Virtuous Woman

  1. Introduction
    1. Prov 31:10-31
      Prov. 31.10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
      Prov. 31.11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
      Prov. 31.12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
      Prov. 31.13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
      Prov. 31.14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
      Prov. 31.15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.
      Prov. 31.16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.
      Prov. 31.17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.
      Prov. 31.18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.
      Prov. 31.19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.
      Prov. 31.20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.
      Prov. 31.21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.
      Prov. 31.22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.
      Prov. 31.23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.
      Prov. 31.24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.
      Prov. 31.25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.
      Prov. 31.26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
      Prov. 31.27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
      Prov. 31.28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
      Prov. 31.29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.
      Prov. 31.30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
      Prov. 31.31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.
    2. Virtuous: good, well doer, them that do well, guiltless, blameless, commendable, exemplary, innocent, irreproachable, pure, righteous, ethical, moral, honest, honorable, principled, proper, respectable, trustworthy, upright

  2. The Old Law
    1. Gen. 2:18-24 help meet (aid, deserving, comparable or suitable, worthy)
      Gen. 2.18 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
      Gen. 2.19 And out of the ground the LORD God formed every beast of the field, and every fowl of the air; and brought them unto Adam to see what he would call them: and whatsoever Adam called every living creature, that was the name thereof.
      Gen. 2.20 And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him.
      Gen. 2.21 And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;
      Gen. 2.22 And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
      Gen. 2.23 And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
      Gen. 2.24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
    2. Pro 11:16 A gracious woman retaineth honour:
    3. Pro 14:1 Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.
    4. Pro 21:9 It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house.
    5. Pro 21:19 It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.
    6. Pro 27:15 A continual dropping in a very rainy day and a contentious woman are alike.
    7. Ecc 7:26 And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her.
  3. The New Law
    1. ICor. 11:3-16
      I Cor. 11.3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.
      I Cor. 11.4 Every man praying or prophesying, having his head covered, dishonoureth his head.
      I Cor. 11.5 But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoureth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven.
      I Cor. 11.6 For if the woman be not covered, let her also be shorn: but if it be a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven, let her be covered.
      I Cor. 11.7 For a man indeed ought not to cover his head, forasmuch as he is the image and glory of God: but the woman is the glory of the man.
      I Cor. 11.8 For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man.
      I Cor. 11.9 Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.
      I Cor. 11.10 For this cause ought the woman to have power on her head because of the angels.
      I Cor. 11.11 Nevertheless neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord.
      I Cor. 11.12 For as the woman is of the man, even so is the man also by the woman; but all things of God.
      I Cor. 11.13 Judge in yourselves: is it comely that a woman pray unto God uncovered?
      I Cor. 11.14 Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man have long hair, it is a shame unto him?
      I Cor. 11.15 But if a woman have long hair, it is a glory to her: for her hair is given her for a covering.
      I Cor. 11.16 But if any man seem to be contentious, we have no such custom, neither the churches of God.
    2. I Cor. 14:34-35
      1Co 14:34 Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law.
      1Co 14:35 And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church
    3. ITim. 2:8-15
      I Tim. 2.8 I will therefore that men pray every where, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting.
      I Tim. 2.9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;
      I Tim. 2.10 But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works.
      I Tim. 2.11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
      I Tim. 2.12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
      I Tim. 2.13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve.
      I Tim. 2.14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.
      I Tim. 2.15 Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.
    4. I Tim. 5:1-16
      I Tim. 5.1 Rebuke not an elder, but intreat him as a father; and the younger men as brethren;
      I Tim. 5.2 The elder women as mothers; the younger as sisters, with all purity.
      I Tim. 5.3 Honour widows that are widows indeed.
      I Tim. 5.4 But if any widow have children or nephews, let them learn first to shew piety at home, and to requite their parents: for that is good and acceptable before God.
      I Tim. 5.5 Now she that is a widow indeed, and desolate, trusteth in God, and continueth in supplications and prayers night and day.
      I Tim. 5.6 But she that liveth in pleasure is dead while she liveth.
      I Tim. 5.7 And these things give in charge, that they may be blameless.
      I Tim. 5.8 But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.
      I Tim. 5.9 Let not a widow be taken into the number under threescore years old, having been the wife of one man,
      I Tim. 5.10 Well reported of for good works; if she have brought up children, if she have lodged strangers, if she have washed the saints' feet, if she have relieved the afflicted, if she have diligently followed every good work.
      I Tim. 5.11 But the younger widows refuse: for when they have begun to wax wanton against Christ, they will marry;
      I Tim. 5.12 Having damnation, because they have cast off their first faith.
      I Tim. 5.13 And withal they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house; and not only idle, but tattlers also and busybodies, speaking things which they ought not.
      I Tim. 5.14 I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully.
      I Tim. 5.15 For some are already turned aside after Satan.
      I Tim. 5.16 If any man or woman that believeth have widows, let them relieve them, and let not the church be charged; that it may relieve them that are widows indeed.
    5. Titus 2:1-15
      Titus 2.1 But speak thou the things which become sound doctrine:
      Titus 2.2 That the aged men be sober, grave, temperate, sound in faith, in charity, in patience.
      Titus 2.3 The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things;
      Titus 2.4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
      Titus 2.5 To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.
      Titus 2.6 Young men likewise exhort to be sober minded.
      Titus 2.7 In all things shewing thyself a pattern of good works: in doctrine shewing uncorruptness, gravity, sincerity,
      Titus 2.8 Sound speech, that cannot be condemned; that he that is of the contrary part may be ashamed, having no evil thing to say of you.
      Titus 2.9 Exhort servants to be obedient unto their own masters, and to please them well in all things; not answering again;
      Titus 2.10 Not purloining, but shewing all good fidelity; that they may adorn the doctrine of God our Saviour in all things.
      Titus 2.11 For the grace of God that bringeth salvation hath appeared to all men,
      Titus 2.12 Teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly, in this present world;
      Titus 2.13 Looking for that blessed hope, and the glorious appearing of the great God and our Saviour Jesus Christ;
      Titus 2.14 Who gave himself for us, that he might redeem us from all iniquity, and purify unto himself a peculiar people, zealous of good works.
      Titus 2.15 These things speak, and exhort, and rebuke with all authority. Let no man despise thee.
    6. IPet. 3:1-7
      I Pet. 3.1 likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
      I Pet. 3.2 While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear.
      I Pet. 3.3 Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;
      I Pet. 3.4 But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
      I Pet. 3.5 For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands:
      I Pet. 3.6 Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.
      I Pet. 3.7 likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
  4. Conclusion Pro 12:4 A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones.

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